How do I… talk to my child if they’re neurodiverse? Five pointers

Compassion and understanding

‘Some kids might act differently or need different help. That doesn't mean they're weird or wrong. It just means we all have to support each other in ways that work best for our brains. Fairness actually means that we don’t treat everyone the same way.’ 

Differences aren't deficits

‘No one’s brain is the same. Some people learn quickly, some need more time. That’s called neurodiversity, and that’s okay.’ 

Concrete examples

‘You know how Igor is really into space and you’re not? That’s just part of how his brain works. Or remember how your cousin has loads of rest after a day out, that’s just part of being neurodiverse, too.’  

Building self-esteem

‘Your brain is amazing. It might work differently from other kids’, and that can be hard, but it comes with great strengths. You’re so creative and can write a poem about anything. Your brother is really good at noticing the small things in life, and he actually likes Maths.’ 

Continuing the conversation

‘If you ever feel confused about how someone acts, or even about yourself, you can talk to me. We're always learning about how people think and feel.’